| Sketches of Strength, Chapter 5 - The Bridge Lenny Built |
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| Written by Dr. Mel | |||||
| Sunday, 16 April 2006 | |||||
Page 2 of 3 Now, that is a month’s worth of work for anyone. He died in December 1999 - just about five years after the “official” diagnosis of myeloma. His background as a youth growing up in a small New Jersey town which wasn’t especially fond of Jews helped fuel his own blend of social consciousness and activism. He was only among a small hand full of Jewish teenagers, and much of the town viewed them strangely. But that did not keep Lenny from moving along in his life. His enthusiasm with life and that “anything-good-can-be-made-to-happen” philosophy convinced him that he could invite Mickey Mantle and Sandy Koufax to his Bar Mitzvah. They didn’t show, but he did have posters. Regardless of being the recipient of ethnic slurs, he ran for president of the eighth grade class, and he won. Later he joined the football team, but was benched when he refused to play on Yom Kippur, the Jewish High Holiday. During those teen years, he traveled to Israel and he saw how social conscience was very much rooted in people of faith. That trip convinced him that this is what he wanted to do in his life – help others who need that help and build relationships among diverse groups.
He went onto American University, and then to law school in Boston where he became student president and soon after began working in democratic politics for Massachusett’s Governor Michael Dukakis who was running for re-election. When Dukakis lost and his job ended, he went to join the ADL in 1978. By 1983, at age 30, he became the organization’s youngest Regional Executive Director. While at the helm of the ADL organization, he forged the “World of Difference” campaign, the “Team Harmony” program, and even a Black-Jewish seder which was later expanded to a Catholic-Jewish seder. At first only a few people showed up, but in just a few short years, attendance exceeded 600 guests. Then of course, there was the “Lenny Fund,” too. During the years as ADL Director, his tires were slashed, and he received written death threats – but that didn’t slow him down, not even the greatest death threat of all – myeloma. During the months and weeks leading up to the transplant he believed that there was more than just chemo that he needed to be as strong as he could. After the initial diagnosis, he began to feel serious chest pains, and that led him to a nearby meditation center where after a few sessions, the pain disappeared. He was familiar with such therapy while in college, but as the years passed, his obligations increased, and of course, he wanted to be with his family, too, so he didn’t have the time to continue with it. But now, he was making time for that, and he was convinced that traditional medicine just did not incorporate enough of these complimentary treatments. He set out to change that for himself, and in the process for many others. He went to see an expert on complimentary treatments, Dr. David Eisenberg of Beth Israel Deaconess Medical Center, just across the street from Dana-Farber, and he showed Lenny what he had learned through his research on alternative therapies. He showed him the importance of exercise, meditation, acupuncture, guided imagery, therapeutic massage, drinking water, using herbs and vitamins, having good nutrition and sleep. Lenny felt he could accomplish most of these efforts – except more sleep, especially now when he believed his life could be cut short and there was so much he wanted to accomplish. For Lenny, there was rest, and there was sleep. More sleep didn’t necessarily provide more rest, and that one should become as active as possible and not sleep for long hours. Five or six hours of sleep proved ample rest for Lenny. Of course, Eisenberg never meant that Lenny should abandon his traditional treatment, and it was important for him to confer with his doctor, Ken Anderson, before making any moves. While nutritional changes, vitamins and herbs are important, these can contradict the traditional treatments, and as Lenny pointed out, “Why go through the pain and suffering of a transplant if you are doing something that will work against it?” |
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